Showing posts from May, 2011

Why People Cheat

Relationships are like the children’s story about Goldilocks and the Three Bears; everyone is like Goldilocks searching for a bed that is just right, not too hard and not too soft. We all have had our experiences with cheating whether we have been the cheater or the all-knowing or unsuspected victim. Most people who want to know why people cheat are usually clueless as to the many mental illnesses associated with cheating; for instance bipolar disorder. They also forget that cheating can also come from what one has learned as a child from watching those around them deal with relationships. In addition, there is the widely held belief that cheating comes from things we do in the relationship that cause one to say, “I can do better with someone else.” Cheating robs you of your mind, body, and soul. One day you are thinking this man or woman is all yours and you are reveling in the wonderful ways he or she makes you feel and then as the days, grow into weeks, and the weeks t

7 Ways to Make Your Spouse or Girlfriend Think Twice About Leaving

The writing is on the wall in your home, you have recently found out that your spouse or girlfriend is thinking about leaving you. She may have quite boldly told you by giving you an ultimatum or secretly told her best friend and you overheard. However, you found out, now is not the time to let her walk out the door if you are not ready to open it. The following our seven actions you can take as soon as today to star building a new foundation for your relationship. It’s time you start getting into the mind of a woman! Hopefully, you won’t be doing too little too late! One. Become her friend. How do you do that? You start by sharing some details of your life you haven’t shared before. If you remember, people become fast friends because they have things in common and because they confide in one another about personal experiences. Give her something about yourself that you never shared before that is interesting without lying or exaggerating. Stop doing everythin

How to Know You Are Marrying More for Religious Reasons than Love

You thought you met the man or woman you wanted to spend the rest of your life with but you have your share of doubts. It all started when you caught him or her in lies, questioned their whereabouts and they avoided an explanation, or wondered if the co-worker they talk frequently about is really just a friend. You want to get married to your child’s father or mother, but not necessarily because you just love them. Rather, because those around you tell you that it is the right thing to do. You may agree with them and feel that morally you want to fix what is considered an immoral thing. So what some Christians or believers in a faith do, is get married ignoring all signs that say that this person is not the one. A woman, Nancy (not her real name) did just that. She reasoned that she would marry her porno addicted fiancĂ© because she thought that if she did and she prayed long and hard enough that God will fix the situation and her soon-to-be husband would stop looking

So Blind She Can't See that The Other Woman is Taking Him Away

Why would any woman want to give her man away to another woman? Well, so many do and how they do it might surprise you! "No woman can take your man away, but you can give them away," I heard often as a young wife from relatives. "Be in tuned to your man. Know everything about him." There was much wisdom behind those statements, but I wouldn't grasp it until after my own divorce, dating other men and then beginning a new relationship with someone else. How might a woman give her husband away? The "I Don't Care" Attitude When relatives and friends have noticed some oddities about her partner, the attitude of the "my man can do no wrong" woman is usually, "I don't care what they say...I don't care what he does..." rather than taking into consideration what "they say" might have some truth to it. A woman with thinly veiled boundaries and/or morals doesn't care that her man does the following: drinks har

She's Crazy by Nicholl McGuire

She's Crazy by Nicholl McGuire
Dating or married to an angry woman?