Many people think that the way to winning their spouse or lover back is to show him/her how much it means to them to get back together as soon as possible. They call and leave desperate messages, email one message after another, text like there is no tomorrow, and generally bombard the ex with messages of all kinds to "call back", "I'm sorry", "we need to talk" and "I need to see you now".
This just doesn't work. In fact, it may blow your chances totally of EVER getting back with your spouse or lover.
S/he will feel much more alienated and possibly angry with you for doing this.
Your emotions are all over the place right after a break up and you are likely to say and do things that you "think" you need to do, but, in reality, you are just pushing that other person away even faster.
Here is a list of "Don'ts" when you are…