Dating Advice, Relationship Problems

How did the single woman go from thinking she was his number one to accepting being his number two, three or even four? After all the wonderful times she has had with this man and all the inconsistent stories that came with them, she realizes this man has been playing her! But she isn't like most women, oh no, she is different. The lonely, desperate woman won't leave the man who has given her no commitment, honesty or even love when she finds out he is seeing another woman or women; rather, she agrees to be his friend with benefits—a lover who may go out on dates with her friend while giving him sex. At first, she doesn't mind giving up the sex to this man all the while hoping that one day she might be his number one. She might even let him borrow her car, give him money or buy him gifts in the hopes that she will reach that coveted position in his life, number one. She thinks, "I don't care about those other women, he's going to be mine!" Thinking that sh