Dating Advice, Relationship Problems

When you date are you expecting to play a role in someone's life? Are you anticipating that when you date this person that they will be capable of meeting your personal and professional needs? Are you sincerely looking for a friend? These questions and more are what some singles don't bother thinking about. They go into dating like they go shopping, scroll and swipe until they find Mr. or Ms. Right.  Once they have selected the person and realize he or she isn't what they life, they have remorse about their choices and wish to return back to their single lives emotionally torn. Think of a time when you dated someone that didn't work out. You most likely couldn't meet their needs and vice versa. Back then, did either of you ever think of what roles you might have played in one another's lives when those warm, kind and loving days had turned cold, unkind and unloving? Some people go into dating relationships with roles in mind such as: mother, cook, caretaker, fat...

Sometimes dating single moms just isn't wise for one who has no children.  A person who is unwilling to make compromises, help with children, share money, time, etc. should avoid dating a woman with children.  Dating single mothers is something that works well with others who may have children.  Now there are those exceptions when a single man or woman has a high tolerance for a date with children.  One should always test his or her to see if this person is really right for not only self, but family too.  It is obvious that the young man speaking in this video, bit off more than he could chew.  Motherhood isn't always a nice experience, and sometimes a frustrated mom will lash out on a man who she may not respect, because, in her eyes, he has child-like ways.  She seeks a provider, not another person she might have to help apart from her children.  Remember, children come with the package, so if you can't handle it, move on.