Dating Advice, Relationship Problems

The phone call that Justine just received feels like the equivalent of a tornado. The words that a woman from her book club just said to her have shaken her-- both inside and out. The woman said, "I saw your husband with another woman. He is having an affair." Justine can't believe that her husband-- who appears so trustworthy and loyal-- has been caught cheating. There are a multitude of ways that you might catch your man cheating, if that's what's going on. You might overhear him talking to someone on the phone. You may read an e-mail exchange. You could put together many of his out-of-character behaviors. And you might walk into your home, his workplace or somewhere else and literally catch him cheating. Assess the reliable facts. With a few stark exceptions, what you might be hearing or seeing could mean something completely different than what you assume it to mean. This can go either way. It's vital that you learn how to assess the RELIA...

Whenever you find out that your guy/girl whom you may care about deeply and even love, is cheating on you it can be devastating. You may feel betrayed, inadequate, and left wondering why this happened to you. You will wonder what did you ever do to deserve such maltreatment, and you may become enraged. However, even though this may seem like the end of the world, keep calm and follow these simple steps. If you follow these steps, you will recover, heal and move on in due time. Confront your man/women after you have had time to calm down - Yes, I know this will be incredibly hard to do if you are upset, but when you are emotional and out for blood, you will never get him to answer your questions. Furthermore, it will just make you more upset and it will emotionally drain you. Calm down, let the initial shock wears off, and then confront the cheating boyfriend/girlfriend. Do not blame yourself for his actions - I know how difficult this will be even if you are upset, a...

We usually hear the question why do men cheat on their women, but statistics are showing that women are cheating at a much higher rate than in years past. Is this really so or is the stats just catching up to what has been going on all along? So what are some reasons that may be causing women to cheat on their men? There is probably no exact reason for why men or women are cheating but in recent surveys several issues were brought up as to why women were cheating. · Unfulfilled at Home - Just like men, women have certain sexual desires that they expect to be met as well. For the men that are concerned with just getting off, they better beware. While their woman may not be openly expressing her dissatisfaction with him, she may be on the prowl for the Don Juan that can fulfill her every desire. · To End a Relationship - For certain women, it is hard for them to emotionally break off a relationship so by sleeping with someone else it allows them to emotionally disconn...

Many options are available to couples who are confronted with the challenge of overcoming adultery in their relationships, but sometimes the best option of all may be for a partner who has committed adultery to seek counseling on their own. Though it may be an unpopular choice to seek individual counseling, some individuals may find that working through personal issues surrounding an adultery incident can prove more effective for mental and emotional recovery, especially when individual counseling is sought before a collaborative session or series of sessions. Experiencing the hurt feelings and emotional expression of a partner in response to adultery can be traumatic, and feelings of guilt, shame, embarrassment, and other unpleasant emotions may become central in the life of someone who has committed adultery. Working through these feelings while attempting to arrive at the principle cause of the incident can prove particularly difficult, and professionals are often able...

Do you need to find out if your spouse is cheating on you or you are just imagining things? There can be several signs that indicate the fact that your spouse is cheating on you, and you are the most authorized person to notice them, as you know them better than anyone, but sometimes it's hard to make sure, and this is something that needs to be known for sure. You don't want to believe they are fateful when they are in fact cheating on you, you need to find out the truth in order to decide what kind of future you have next to that person - if any. When noticing several calls from their cell or on the telephone bill to an unknown number, there wasn't much you could have done in the past to find out to whom than number belonged, but things have changed now in the age of the internet. For example, I actually was being cheated on by my wife, and I couldn't have found out if I didn't use a reverse cell phone detective. After finding a suspicious number in her cell, I ne...

"The car broke down. I was miles from anywhere, I just couldn't contact you." The cleverest of alibis will not count on the word of other people as they could potentially give away the secret. Why would you question their alibi if you had complete trust in them. However if you have reason to be suspicious, maybe you should be analysing your partners alibi a little more closely. So let's look at ways that you can analyse their alibis if you want to try and catch out your cheating partner? Well, all you can do by yourself in these circumstances is ask your partner for as much detail as you can without raising suspicion yourself. Keep a record. The cheat will have to remember everything they said and corroborate it when you ask them again a few days or weeks later. Perhaps your partner claims to have broken down miles from anywhere. How did they get back? How long did it take? What was the weather like? Did anyone stop to help them? How to Catch A Cheating Partner....