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Disagreements

Every couple has disagreements. There are those things that no matter how much you try to convince your partner that what he or she is saying or doing is wrong, he or she will remain firm in views and/or actions. "Why does she have to make things so complicated?" You think. "Who is this person?"

When you can respectfully agree to disagree while continuing in the relationship without a bruised ego then you are on a great path! As for the rest of us, we still have a lot of learning to do! One of our biggest mistakes is we don't know how to shut up about the matter. We keep talking as if things will change when they won't. "If only you would...," we further aggravate the situation like picking at a scab until it bleeds again. The next thing we do is yell, slam around a few things or worse almost come to blows! We may turn and walk away, but what do we do in a few minutes, an hour or a day later, rehash everything back up again!

There comes a …