What is a True Relationship?

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In Love with Mr. Potential - an audio message by author Nicholl McGuire

Ladies, so you want to press on in a relationship with Mr. Potential rather than Mr. Right?  This is a message for believers who continue to remain in relationships with those they are unequally yoked with doesn't married, dating seriously or casually--a wake up call!  Click here to listen: Vocaroo Voice Message

How to Include God in Relationship

Seeking a soul mate in the hopes that this person is going to bring light to your life, but having trouble finding him or her? Do you desire someone who is going to uplift you spiritually, emotionally and physically? If so, there is no one that will ever be a perfect fit, but at least for a time you just might land someone whose spirit might stand out among the rest.

What makes some dates a bit unique, special or very kind is their personal faith in someone or something bigger than their selves. Those who believe in a supernatural power recognize this fact; this is why they look to a heavenly Creator. This “God” that many speak of, who heals, loves, punishes, excites, and more, is welcomed into the believer’s personal as well as professional relationship. Couples in agreement about personal beliefs are happy with their God’s interference in their intimate relationship.

Seek God

In order for one to have a relationship with God, he or she must pray, believe, and trust in Him to supply needs before asking him to intervene in one’s quest to find a compatible match. Those that call themselves, Christians, believers or other names, will ask for Him to bless them with a partner who they hope to spend the rest of their lives. They will take much time watching as well as praying for signs that a potential date is indeed “The One.” Those that do this tend to know themselves very well and have specific criteria for selecting a partner.

Equally Yoked

The problem for many with a faith in a supernatural being is that they tend to attract people who don’t believe as they do. Some will compromise their faith in an effort to remain in a relationship while others will not. This is because they are not advised in their Holy Bible, a wise book of spiritual teachings with life lessons, to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't believe as they do. This can be disheartening for those who really enjoy the believer’s company and would very much like to be in his or her life long-term.

Love

God’s involvement in the relationship comes when the couple decides that they would like to start doing the following: begin reading the Bible as a pair and/or individually, meditating on what they have read, participate in spiritual fasting, listening to spiritual music, attending church services, connecting with other like-minded couples, and more. As they grow to love their spiritual relationship with their Lord, the relationship appears to grow stronger as well. Much of what they spiritually experience is based on how committed they are to God and their relationship. Those that love deeply will say things like, “It is because of Jesus…I thank God for finding her…If it wasn't for Him I don’t know if I would have ever met my husband.”

A spiritual relationship is not for everyone, but for those who do include God in their dating or marriage, find it enlightening and enjoyable.

Nicholl McGuire shares spiritual insight on YouTube: nmenterprise7 and she also provides informative tips about online dating here.

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