Can You Push a Man into the Arms of Another Woman?
If you didn't intend to give him an excuse to go out and cheat, he just might use the following to do it. Not every man is guilty of cheating, but give them a reason and who knows what might happen?
One. Telling him, “Go
to her…Find someone else I don’t need you anyway!” when you don’t really mean
it. Some men whether they have someone
else they are seeing will take you up on this statement. When you are arguing, try to refrain from
telling him this if you still want to be with him.
Two. Making false
accusations without proof. So you found
a number you don’t recognize somewhere in his belongings, big deal! It means nothing if you don’t call it and
someone on the other end of the phone says, “Yes, I did sleep with Jim.” The real proof is the kind that no matter
what he says or does he can’t wiggle out of any of it when confronted.
Three. Refusing to
forgive him for the past. You told him
that you forgave him, yet you still bring up what he did to you back in
1999. Chances are you haven’t moved on,
and he will. Until you are completely
over the incidents of the past, don’t allow him back into your life.
Four. Not acting
interested in your man. You are happy
and smiling at his family and friends, but when he tries to make small talk
with you or be affectionate, you are cold.
If you don’t get over what is bothering you, he will find someone who is
hot.
Five. Repeatedly
lying to your mate. He asked you to tell
the truth, yet you still lie anyway. How
long do you think you can keep lying, before he breaks it off with you?
Six. Letting your
appearance go downhill. No excuses on
this one. Men will always be visual
creatures; therefore, don’t expect them to empathize with your weight problem,
bad hair days, menstrual issues and whatever else that is making you
unattractive. Do something about them
all before its too late!
Seven. Never smiling
or showing appreciation, always finding fault with him. Men have been known to walk out on their
wives after ten plus years. It is
unfortunate but many will say it was because of this point.
Eight. Praising every
woman around you and making a point to tell your mate about other women’s
attributes while putting yourself down.
You may have done this, told your man how lovely your best friend looks
in her clothes. Well you may think there
is nothing wrong with doing this, but there is if you do it enough times. Instead of pointing out what is good about
everyone else, why not point out something that is good about you.
Nine. Knowing he is
involved with another woman early in the relationship, yet you look the other
way. He told you he was leaving his
wife, breaking up with his girlfriend, or calling off the wedding to his
fiancé, but what he didn’t tell you was exactly when and he still hasn’t shown
you the proof of divorce. There is a
good possibility that he won’t be doing it because he still loves her. Get out while you can or you may be sharing
your man.
Ten. Bringing your
most attractive and flirtatious friends around him assuming they all will
behave. There are men who enjoy the
company of beautiful women so much in fact that they may just get tempted. If you don’t want him to have some fun with
your friends, don’t invite them to your home with him around.
Eleven. Knowing he
has bad habits that often get him into trouble, yet you stay anyway. Drugs, alcohol, and/or pornography are a few
of the bad habits you may be aware of, yet you think that he won’t slip up and
cheat on you while doing these things.
Think again.
Twelve. Telling him
what your most personal weaknesses are and expecting your troubled man to be
supportive. You share with him your
problem of depression, the bad relationship you have with your dad, or your
terrible spending habit, he has enough troubles of his own, rather than help
you through your problems he may look to someone who doesn’t have as much
emotional baggage and more money.
Thirteen. Abstaining
from any nice thing you often did for him to win him over (including using the
absence of sex and cooking as forms of punishment.) If you did many wonderful things for him
early in the relationship and then suddenly stopped, you are communicating a
message to him that there are problems.
However, without explaining what is going on with you, he will look
toward someone else for comfort believing you aren’t interested in him anymore.
Now that you have read 13 ways you might be encouraging your man to leave you and go off with the real or imagined woman you believe he is fond of, what are you going to do?
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