How to Include God in Relationship
Seeking a soul mate in the hopes that
this person is going to bring light to your life, but having trouble
finding him or her? Do you desire someone who is going to uplift you
spiritually, emotionally and physically? If so, there is no one that
will ever be a perfect fit, but at least for a time you just might
land someone whose spirit might stand out among the rest.
What makes some dates a bit unique,
special or very kind is their personal faith in someone or something
bigger than their selves. Those who believe in a supernatural power
recognize this fact; this is why they look to a heavenly Creator.
This “God” that many speak of, who heals, loves, punishes,
excites, and more, is welcomed into the believer’s personal as well
as professional relationship. Couples in agreement about personal
beliefs are happy with their God’s interference in their intimate
relationship.
Seek God
In order for one to have a relationship
with God, he or she must pray, believe, and trust in Him to supply
needs before asking him to intervene in one’s quest to find a
compatible match. Those that call themselves, Christians, believers
or other names, will ask for Him to bless them with a partner who
they hope to spend the rest of their lives. They will take much time
watching as well as praying for signs that a potential date is indeed
“The One.” Those that do this tend to know themselves very well
and have specific criteria for selecting a partner.
Equally Yoked
The problem for many with a faith in a
supernatural being is that they tend to attract people who don’t
believe as they do. Some will compromise their faith in an effort to
remain in a relationship while others will not. This is because they
are not advised in their Holy Bible, a wise book of spiritual
teachings with life lessons, to be in a relationship with someone who
doesn't believe as they do. This can be disheartening for those
who really enjoy the believer’s company and would very much like to
be in his or her life long-term.
Love
God’s involvement in the relationship
comes when the couple decides that they would like to start doing the
following: begin reading the Bible as a pair and/or individually,
meditating on what they have read, participate in spiritual fasting,
listening to spiritual music, attending church services, connecting
with other like-minded couples, and more. As they grow to love their
spiritual relationship with their Lord, the relationship appears to
grow stronger as well. Much of what they spiritually experience is
based on how committed they are to God and their relationship. Those
that love deeply will say things like, “It is because of Jesus…I
thank God for finding her…If it wasn't for Him I don’t know if
I would have ever met my husband.”
A spiritual relationship is not for
everyone, but for those who do include God in their dating or
marriage, find it enlightening and enjoyable.
Nicholl McGuire shares spiritual insight on YouTube: nmenterprise7 and she also provides informative tips about online dating here.
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