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What Does a Date Who says I Love You Expect?
Some single men and women are quite
serious when it comes to dating they desire very much to find
partners who are willing to settle down with them. These zealous
daters are quick to be all things to their potential love interests.
Most of all, they are very forward about their feelings and will say
this important three letter word statement usually before their
significant others even think about saying it, “I love you.”
Once these emotionally charged singles
express their love, depending on how mentally and physically stable
these people are, they will expect much or nothing at all. People
with mental illness can love just like those who have no personality
disorders. They might not think nothing more about what they have
said or act as if the relationship has just received a steroid boost.
You will know whether the “love” is indeed genuine and healthy
by what your lover expects from you. Those with personality
disorders usually operate in extremes sometimes followed by a period
of mood swings like, “Today I love you, but tomorrow I will hate
you.” Observe how your mate behaves and pay attention to whether
he or she is emotionally balanced on most days.
Someone who has
either told you boldly or in a roundabout way that he or she wants a
committed relationship will assume you are in agreement when it comes
to dating exclusively. If you don’t ask this person to share his
or her view of the relationship’s status, you just might find
yourself caught in a confusing trap.
For most women who
say, “I love you.” They are hoping that men get the point, there
is no having sex with other people. But just like discussing
commitment, if these women don’t say what they really want, the
bachelors will continue to be open about having sex with others.
Discussions about the future.
and financial planning, home and car purchases, relocation, and other
topics about the future will begin to increase. The power of “I
love you” will show up in what this person wants from you, what you
both will work together to build, and what he or she will do for you.
Sounds like some intense discussions coming up? They are and
usually these topics will make or break the relationship.
Meeting family and friends.
Whether you have
met the loved ones or not, you will find yourself at a sit down
meeting with these people one day selling yourself on why you are a
good choice for their beloved daughter or son. Chances are the one
who said, “I love you” told his or her inner circle how he or she
felt about you that prompted talk of meeting the family members and
friends or reconnecting with them again.
When you think of
a simple phrase like, “I love you,” you just don’t realize the
magnitude of it. For the mentally stable or unstable, it could mean
much or nothing at all. You will need to be sure that you are able
to reciprocate those emotions too in order for your relationship to
be a success.
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