Facebook: It's Not Complicated - You Aren't in Love Anymore

If you have ever selected the relationship status choice of "It's complicated" on Facebook or something similar on another website, you must know you are telling the world you have issues--lots of them and most likely you are responsible for at least 50% of them. 

Let's be honest, you aren't in love--that's not complicated.  You most likely never was especially if the female or male was nothing more than a rebound during a down moment in your life--possibly in like, but in love?  Yet, we all have fallen for that new person (notice I didn't say love) who seems to show up and show out in our lives when we least expect it.  Knowing full well, the "okay" guy or "alright girl" should have been nothing more than an acquaintance at the time, yet we agreed to a relationship built on one maybe two great dates (sigh).  Before long, that supposedly temporary distraction is coming over your home sticking his or her personal items in your bathroom and hanging his or her clothes in your closet--huh?

No, my friend, it's not complicated, it's crazy!  What were you thinking getting involved with someone for his or her beauty, sex, money, connections, or some other thing that really means nothing now!  Whatever Complicated Partner told you to get and keep you from all the other available guys or gals that had their eyes on you, turned out to be an exaggeration or lie and you fell for it!  It was only a matter of time that you felt disheartened, you started questioning yourself, "What did I get myself into?"  My question to you today is, "When will you get yourself out of your complicated mess?" 

Why use an "It's complicated" status to draw someone like you to you in a similar miserable relationship (you know misery loves company), switch that option back to "In a relationship" then work to officially get out or better yet, send a clear message by selecting single, but be prepared for the backlash. 

Nicholl McGuire 

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