Why Your Ex Doesn't Want You Back

He has his issues with his ex-girlfriend.  She doesn't feel she can trust her boyfriend.  The more people keep inside the worse things can get.  This is why many relationships come to a swift end.  Your ex may not want you back for any number of reasons.  An important thing you should know is that if you should force something that isn't meant to be, sooner or later you will reap the consequences.

1.  An ex may have someone else that is showing him or her interest.

The two might not be dating, but whatever the chemistry, an ex is curious.  How can one emotionally compete?  Sometimes history together has little to do with those growing feelings inside that tell a former partner, "Why not explore new possibilities, he or she hasn't hurt you?"

2.  The influence of the ex's family and friends has a significant impact.

When an ex's ears are tuned into family there is little one can do.  His or her loved ones most likely warned the ex from the start of the relationship it won't work.  With enough pressure, an ex will not think about jeopardizing his or her relationship with relatives, especially those who give her or him much.

3.  You blew it when you wouldn't admit your wrongdoing.

Sometimes pride gets in the way and after awhile a partner gives up on seeking truth.  So if you aren't transparent and you continue to lie, deny, minimize, and blame every time a certain subject matter comes up, your former mate will shut down.

4.  You have someone else.

As strange as this may seem, but sometimes we chase after the one that got away because there is something with a new partner that just doesn't satisfy us.  Even though we know an ex isn't good for us and neither is the one we are dating, yet we let our minds and hearts at times direct us where we shouldn't be.  The ex picks up that your feelings are elsewhere, he or she isn't coming back.

5.  Your ex has simply moved on.

No explanation or analysis needed on why your ex doesn't want you anymore.  There isn't anyone else, he or she isn't the least bit concerned about what loved ones think, and couldn't care less about the time you two were together.  This person just wants to get on with life without you.

When you take a moment to think about things, you will feel that maybe you aren't in love or like as much as you think with an ex.  You may be lonely, in need of material wealth or money, feel like a failure, or whatever else that has little to do with winning an ex back, but has everything to do with getting personal desires met.  An ex might have seen negative things about you that you have yet to discover about yourself and if this is the case, why bother wondering anymore why he or she doesn't want you back, work on you!

Nicholl McGuire is an author and inspirational speaker.  She is also the blog owner.