It can be quite stressful dating someone who is stressed about any number of things on any given day. Whether it is family concerns, a money problem, unruly children, or a crazy ex , your date's troubles can rub off on you! No matter what the issue someone else is facing, you don't need to let their problems consume you. You are empathetic, but you have a life. You are sorry that they are going through much and offer assistance, but you know you can't afford to lose it too or go broke. Life goes on, there are highs and lows and hopefully your date will rise above his or her blues, but maybe not. Now if your date is using the time you spend together to vent, allow him or her to do just that, but also provide suggestions that will help your date calm down a bit. From a favorite drink to a nice massage, think of ways to help him or her relax. You will discover what type of person you are connecting with by the way he or she responds or doesn't to your efforts. A
