Manipulative Men Create Themselves to be Everything You Ever Wanted
He said all the right things based on what he had already learned about me. He promised me that we would go to fun places and see cool things. He told me that he loved me and how stupid the last man was for letting me go. He bought me everything I ever wanted. He seemed like he really wanted to know me, he asked me lots of questions. All of what I mentioned above was what I remembered during the dating phase with various men. They were nice-looking, charming, but all had dark sides. They took the time to get to know me because "I was different...pretty, smart...liked my smile." Oh yea, the smile. They all found my smile very attractive. But I wasn't sold much on their looks, it was their voices. I was lured by the tone of their voices and what they promised. Back then, in my 20s. Now in my forties. I know now when a man is attempting to make himself into something I would desire even though I am married and they know it. They still try. One
