When You Know You Are Headed for Breakup...
Living together or living apart? You aren't ready to pack just yet those things you left over his or her house or those things you brought with you when you moved in together. You also aren't ready to announce to the world you are single despite fantasizing about it often. But what you are ready for is that slow mental break up. Some of you know what I am talking about because you are in it right now. You have sounded the alarm enough times through all those, "Let's talk" conversations. You said things like, "I hope that we can do XYZ to improve the relationship." Chances are you didn't really mean it. You may have also said, "We really ought to make some changes here and there." So you put some effort, but not much. Then you threw in, "I sincerely do have feelings for you..." But, you know this person is not your "one" anymore. Maybe your partner was listening during your feel-good speeches, but obviously ...