Is There Anyone Who Loves You More than the One Who Does Right Now?
We might assume because someone else (that one who keeps looking at you at the workplace or the friendly girl down the street) who wishes to be a part of your life is Mr. Right or Ms. Right, but don't be so sure.
Love isn't about who makes you tingle inside and makes you feel 10 years younger as I'm sure you have already learned the hard way. Love is far more deeper than that! We should think, that maybe just maybe, the reason why the person who is currently in your life sticks around is because he or she just simply wants to be with you or maybe he or she hasn't found your replacement yet. But why worry over the, "Why does she (or he) still want me?"
We all know that to stick it out with a person, any person for that matter, requires effort. You may ask yourself, "What am I willing to tolerate from this person and what is it that I will not put up with anymore?" If you can go the distance with this person, good, bad or otherwise, good for you! However, if the relationship is mentally, physically and spiritually draining to the point that you feel like you are going crazy, then you have to ask yourself, "What is wrong with me? Why do I continue to hold on to someone or something in this relationship that doesn't love me back? You know that love doesn't hurt, right?
Forget about looking for the next pretty face or handsome guy to sweep you away, fall in love with yourself again and that one who puts up with you no matter what. Sweep your self off your feet by coming up higher out of negative circumstances, and know that you can get yourself out of any rut with faith, "true" love, and above all work!
Nicholl McGuire is the author of Laboring to Love Myself on Amazon.com