He's No Good for You, She's a Slut

When well-meaning family members and friends finally meet this person you have raved so much about they may be very skeptical at first. Sometimes their skepticism never leaves no matter how much you parade your new love in front of them.

Some will be bold and others may be coy about how they really feel about your date. "He's no good...she is a slut!" They may tell you about what they think they know about the person and what they may have heard. Most likely, you will defend this person who has brought you so much joy. However, consider the source and why they feel the way they do. Is there any truth to their argument?

I can recall a time when I was head over heels in love with a guy that I brought around my family. Everyone else seemed to like him except one person. She didn't have a man herself and she was known for being a gossip. Although she was right about him being "no good," she was also very wrong for sharing her opinion with everyone else. Family members often told her to "mind her own business."

We all have to learn the hard way about people. We can't live our lives with gut feelings, assumptions and other people's opinions. We can only do one thing take the blinders off our eyes and see our dates for who they really are. There is the person who we see at face value and then there is the real person behind the scenes. The key is to set up enough situations and circumstances to test the individual to determine if he or she is right for you.


Nicholl McGuire
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